By Tom Quiner A young man wants to live together with his girl friend. But he doesn’t want to get married because he has some “serious commitment issues.” Read yesterday’s post for the set up for today’s post (The Mysterious Benefits of Marriage.) The young man’s commitment phobia gets to the heart of the marriage…

Read More

By Tom Quiner I read advice columnists. How I would have loved to respond today to the young lady who wrote in to advice columnist, Carolyn Hax, in her column which is called “Tell Me About It.” The woman begins: “I’ve been dating my boyfriend for two years (he’s 29, I’m 30). I’m the first…

Read More